How to Find a Co-parent Match Online?

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You’ve decided that you want to co-parent, but how do you go about finding the right person with which to bear a child? Many people want to find someone to co-parent with but wonder what traits truly matter to them. It may not be as difficult or as stressful as finding your life partner, but your co-parent will be in your life forever, no matter what, so choosing your parenting partner is a very important choice to make. Whether you’re single and looking for a platonic relationship to raise a child in, a same-sex couple searching for a co-parent to help you to start a family, or even a heterosexual couple who isn’t even to conceive themselves for one reason or another, finding your co-parent match is best done online.

A traditional family is no longer the only type of family that makes sense, and to be able to bring children into the world and support them completely in a nurturing environment is now what most people really want. Choosing your co-parent with family values, education and other principles in mind will help you to create a healthy relationship based on your ambitions for your child, rather than traditional marital beliefs, can help you to provide an environment in which your child will thrive.

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Share responsibilities

Co-parenting involves two (or more) committed parents who raise a child with complimenting views of child rearing, who have agreed to emotionally and financially support the child. Both parents are involved in the child’s life, perhaps equally, or perhaps at a percentage that is agreed before the birth, and both parents commit to agreeing on responsibilities and major decisions surrounding that child’s life.

So how do you find this person with whom you will share so much? Many people are looking for how to find a co-parent match online, and it isn’t as hard as you might think. The first tip that we can give you is to explore our discussion board or forum, get used to the way that it works and if you’re not sure, then ask a question. Other members of the forum will be more than happy to help you get started in your search and they may even support you in your quest.

The first stop on your quest to achieve your dream of having a baby should be the forum, and that’s where you can post an advertisement asking for a co-parent to volunteer themselves to your cause, as well as search through other advertisements of prospective co-parents who are looking for their parenting partner. Whether you are looking for a mother or a father, the forum will open your eyes to the sheer volume of prospective co-parents who could all be your ticket to parenthood.

Find information

Finding a co-parent match online shouldn’t be so hard, top tips for finding your ideal co-parent match:If you are going to post your own advertisement, then you need to ensure that you include all of the most necessary information that you want to know about your co-parent, and the same information about yourself. If you co-parents’ financial stability is important to you, it will most likely be important to them and so this information should be included in your posting. You should set out your requirements for how you will share responsibility of the child, as well as your preferences for family health history, and your location and distance that you are willing to travel.

You will also need to set out how you want to go about conceiving the child, do you want to do natural or artificial insemination, and will you be willing to compromise on any of these aspects?

Posting your advertisement

Posting your advertisement isn’t the only step to finding a co-parent on CoParents.com, and your chances of finding your ideal parenting partner will be much higher if you create yourself a profile that does you justice. Here you are able to post a picture of yourself so that should your physical attributes be important to your co-parent, these can be seen easily. You will also then be able to see other prospective co-parents profiles to find those who could be a match and hopefully your future co-parent. If you are single, heterosexual, homosexual, in a same sex relationship or in a heterosexual this should be clearly set out in both your profile and your advertisement, so that your co-parent knows the facts of the situation.

Once you have screened your responses and found your perfect co-parent, CoParents.com allows you to discuss technicalities of the process safely and securely via the website before you move forward to begin making a baby. The website also offers advice and tips on how to move forward one you have found your co-parent match online, it is your safe space to finding and securing a co-parent, it really isn’t as hard as you might think.

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  1. Hi, I’m a 36yo educated black male. Stable finance job, into fitness and being outdoors, hardly ever drink, definitely no drugs. I’m a great guy and would make a wonderful father, but haven’t found the right woman. Feel free to reach out to learn more. Thanks.

  2. im a 34 yr old latino male blood type o negative rh factor and willing to donate my sperm i just would like to have a child even if im not in a relationship with that person i have no children and im getting older please contact me

    1. Hi Michael –

      I am interested. Where are you located as I am on the east coast, Maryland, DC area to be exact?

  3. I’m in my 20s, I want to be a mom but not in a romantic relationship. Would love to co-parent with a gay couple or individual

  4. I want to be a parent. I have no kids never married. We cannot have kids would like someone younger and want her to live with us in Toronto Canada. If interested tell me something about yourself.

  5. Curiosity, if my wife and I are doing ici, which we have multiple times, lost 1,000’s off dollars in missed peaked attempts so we’re going for a free donor route, how would it work? Would we have the sperm shipped to us? Or…..

  6. I really want kids and am looking for a friend(s) to coparent with in the San Diego area. If your interested please contact me

    1. Hi Anna, my wife and I have been trying to be parents for 6 years but with no success. I am interested with the co-parent idea. Shall we talk?

  7. I am looking for a man that is ready to co parent. I am 36 years of age and I really want to be a mother. I don’t need a romantic relationship.
    Just a decent man, stable life and Educated.

    1. Hi Re, my wife and I have been trying to be parents for 6 years but with no success. I am interested with the co-parent idea. Shall we talk?

  8. I’m interested in becoming a parent I’m 20 years old trying to have a Baby before I turn 21. Any females 18-40 willing to start a family with me I’m your guy. Please Contact me

  9. Hi I am 32 and I have always wanted to be a mother I’m looking for a donor or someone to co-parenting with.

  10. Educated 29 year old gentleman from southeast MO. I currently work in retail management. I am homosexual and single. Would love to find a co-parenting situation with a lovely lady who would eventually become a best friend so our child would have as close to a traditional family as possible. I am willing to go the natural route or insemination. Thank you.

    1. Hi Audrey. I have some experience working with autistic children and I’m interested in co-parenting. How is your son coming along in his effort to adapt and grow?..

  11. Hey there!! I am a 48 year old, single woman, preparing for IVF. Neither the eggs nor the sperm have been procured yet but I am open to ideas and may be interested in finding a younger person or couple that would like to co-parent with me.

  12. I’ve always wanted to be a father and after 7 years of marriage my husband just told me he never wanted to be a father and wanted me to give it up too. So we’ve decided it’s time to end and it is time for me to focus on being happy……I would love to find a Coparent who is down to earth and ready to build a great relationship…….35 from the New England area in the hospitality industry……,,,,,

    1. I’m in the same sort of situation. I”m really eager to have a child or children and would love to have the structure and support that comes with co-parenting..

  13. Good evening all. I’m a bachelor, maybe older with a younger look by my own choosing. I would like to have a child as a coparent with a female, and help raise the child in a great environment. I choice coparentjng because you get women of today want same age mates. Who can blame them. Again I need information. US only Carrie’s 4% of the worlds population. That’s weak

  14. I’m looking for a woman to co parent with. I am married and my wife can’t have more children. She is 10 years older than me .

  15. Looking to have a child with someone who will love them as much as I do. Very stable in all aspects in my life, and looking for someone who wants the same.

  16. I am 41 years old I ain’t got no kids and what I want in life to find a woman with no stranger text that I can have a kid by and I will take care of my kids and I can’t be well taking care of that’s one thing a woman should know I just need to find someone that will to be adult ever agreement and for me to have a kid

  17. Hi I’m 34 years old Asian female wanted to be a mother all my life.
    I’m married but my husband can not give me kids because he have a health problem.
    I’m looking for 30 to 40 Aussie male blue eyes blonde hair Donor looking for help guys 🙏 please make my dream come true 🙏

    1. Hi,

      I’m an aussie guy in the same situation. We might be a match, but otherwise, i’d love to have a chat to you about it…. perhaps over coffee as this process is confusing and seems complicated.

      Message me for details if you want a coffee

  18. Hi!

    37 y/o healthy female in Los Angeles. Looking for an open donor or co-parent with a great human being. Someone with a great sense of humor and good genes.

  19. Someone questioned also,why around here,it seemed like ones could have around here but live elsewhere and looking to wed.however persons gave a fuss like ones could not go back together.whats up with that?have a clue?

  20. Still looking for co..doesn’t seem like to much here ,however if others are watching and waiting…(female seeking male,that is.)

  21. I would like to co-parent with a responsible adult close by. I live in New York, rockland county. I’m African-American. I would prefer to co-parent with someone outside my race. I’m 26 years old.

  22. I’m interested in becoming a parent and am willing to co parent so if any woman is ready to become a mother but is scared to raise a child alone I am willing to be that man.

  23. I am an adult female going through ovarian rejuvenation. Looking for a partner for a coparenting agreement.
    Me: Educated, well-travelled, self-employed, former education administrator and Montessori Pre-K teacher with a high IQ, close family and support system, black. Planning pregnancy at the end of 2022 or beginning of 2023. Kind, loving, supportive. Raised nephews and nieces so didn’t have a chance to have a child thé traditional way.

  24. Hi I am a 40 yr old woman from NY and have a successful career but would like to have a baby. I’m looking for someone to coparent with. Anyone from the NY area?

  25. Hi I’m a 30 year old male who wants to have a child
    Ever since I was a boy I wanted to have a son im a single gay but very discreet and private male.i know I would make a great father .please lets go half on everything regarding our child!

  26. Any females needing help having kids I’m 25 and single and if any couples or women need help starting a family let me know

  27. Hey I’m 26 years old trying to have A Baby before i turn 27. Most people say I’m A beautiful girl but can’t find anyone to have A Baby with me. Could some please help, I’m looking for A black/Jamaican male .

  28. My husband and I are looking to adopt/co-parent. I’m a pediatric nurse/nurse practitioner (graduate this year). My husband is a Chef. We have two beautiful dogs and lots of love to share.

  29. I am 10 years older than my husband and have 3 grown kids. I can’t have any more children and don’t want to neccissarily raise anymore kids. But he wants a kid. We are interested in him co-parenting with someone. My husband would make a great father

  30. My partner has a child from her previous marriage. She can’t. The doctors said that I could have a baby, so my wife allowed me to have another daughter. Please any women interested contact me

  31. I’m married, but my wife doesn’t want to have kids. However, she is okay if I can assist another family help have family.

  32. Hi, I’m a 37 year old man and wanted to be a father all my life. I don’t do relationship s all that well, I really want to be a co parent with another responsible adult female. I would rather be a co parent than a sperm donor

  33. I’m a mother of one and I’m not ready yet to be a mother my son is a year 7months old and would like him to have parents who would raise him and love him and adopt him
    Yours sincerely R Mashamaite

  34. I am a 45 year old multi-racial Hispanic male looking to co-parent. I am from the DMV area, Baltimore, MD. I am looking to live together and parent stemming from our connection. I am a warm, loving, and supportive. I am Buddhist and spiritual. I meditate often. I love children and hope to have a family one day. I love to walk, travel to water/theme parks—definitely where there’s swimming involved. I am a teacher. Leave a comment if interested.