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Coparent for large family (4+)

I’m looking for a kind, emotionally mature co-parent who genuinely wants a large family—think 4+ children—with no upper limit – and is ready to build a stable, joyful life centered on raising kids together.

About me: A warm, intelligent, pretty humorous, responsible, 6’5, green eyes, brown hair, family-oriented, white male who is emotionally stable. I value open communication, healthy routines, education, laughter, and doing traditions (Christmas, Halloween, Thanksgiving, and our own made up traditions) that our children will remember forever. I’m hoping for a true partnership in parenting: shared time, shared decisions, and mutual respect. It also should be fun and playful. But importantly, I don’t expect too much, and each co-parent is responsible FOR THEIR OWN HAPPINESS. If you’re depressed, I can’t make you happy, if I’m the one who’s sad, I won’t blame you for that – I feel this is a big reason couples fail and split unnecessarily.

What I’m looking for:

  • Someone who wants multiple children naturally and is emotionally mature enough for parenthood and coparenting
  • A cooperative, respectful co-parent—willing to keep this interesting and go along with my wild imagination when it comes to physical intimacy between us, with full respect for all your boundaries of course
  • Willingness to create a clear parenting plan covering time with the children, holidays, education, medical decisions, expenses, and conflict resolution
  • A commitment to putting the children’s well-being first and communicating calmly, even when we disagree

    The vision: A big, busy household full of birthday cakes, school projects, weekend adventures, and a support system that lasts for decades. We certainly don’t have to be a conventional couple — but I would insist we get married prior to trying to have children – due to my Christian beliefs.

If you’re serious about building a family through co-parenting, send a message telling me a little about yourself, your hopes for family life, and what your dream is.

Location: NE USA, but will relocate for the right person.

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