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Becoming a Parent Thanks to Free Sperm Donor

Sperm banks are currently experiencing a shortage in donors on a global scale (in particular in European countries). However, finding a free sperm donor in the US is relatively easy. The US is actually seeing an increase in sperm donors of late and being able to find a free sperm donor online through CoParents.com is a smooth, straightforward and simple process.

CoParents.com works kind of like a dating site, except that instead of looking for a date, you are looking for an online sperm donor! Using our comprehensive database of thousands of members, you are able to search for a free sperm donor who meets your criteria. This differs to most American sperm banks, where donors usually receive a payment in exchange for their donation.

Our thousands of donors come from all over the world, including the US and Australia, meaning you can always find free sperm donors located near to where you live. Once you’ve found someone that interests you (for instance, because their “about me” section caught your attention), simply contact them online. In your message, introduce yourself and explain to your potential donors what you’re looking for. Ask them any relevant questions that help you to ascertain whether they are potentially a good match for you. You have the impression that you have been looking for ages? Don’t worry, CoParents.com gains many new members every day and our sperm donor database is growing fast. Therefore, if the right match for you is not there yet, chances are they will be soon.

An illustration showing the process of finding a free sperm donor. The scene includes a diverse group of people, including single women and couples

We know that having and raising a child alone can be quite daunting. That’s why it’s best that you play devil’s advocate beforehand. Ask yourself the right questions: Who would care for your child if you were sick? Would you be able to provide for your child if you lost your job? If the child were to be born with any difficulties, or encounter them later on, would you be able to cope alone with this? If you are a single person looking to have a child via an anonymous sperm donor, remember that raising a child on your own requires some in-depth thought, as this is a lifelong commitment.

For people wanting donors who will co-parent the child, you need to ensure that you will be compatible with this person. Chances are that you will be pretty close for the next couple of decades at least and so, if you don’t get along or have strong opposing views on important subjects, this could be very difficult. It’s important to discuss certain issues right from the beginning, preferably before conception, such as how much the donor will be involved in the child’s life, how much financial support will be provided or how much support you would receive if you or your child were having problems (medical or not).

The Getting Pregnant Stage:

Basically, you have two options, artificial insemination (IUI) or natural conception. Both have advantages and disadvantages, with the artificial insemination being less awkward and easier to conduct but also it can be expensive and the price goes up with the success rate; for example, for a 75% chance of success you could be looking at tens of thousands of pounds. If you are in a relationship, the thought of your partner actually having sexual interaction with another could be extremely uncomfortable for you, but it could be the easiest way and much less draining on your finances. Natural conception’s success rate is about 15-20% per month, even if both of you are fertile and healthy. Chances of success may depend on your fertility, your ovulation and menstrual cycle.

How to become pregnant is a personal choice. A good way to help you make your decision is to have a look at our forums and testimonials.

Frequently asked questions about sperm donors

Where do I find a free sperm donor?

Finding a sperm donor is step one on your path to becoming pregnant and is definitely worth researching well before you make your choice. If you visit the coparents.com forum you will have plenty of choice from our members offering up their services to help you get pregnant, this enables you to get to know the characteristics of your donor before deciding to choose them. This is by far the best way of finding a known sperm donor, and using our forum makes it so easy.

If I’m co-parenting do I need a sperm donor?

Basically, yes. However, bear in mind that although your co-parent can be your donor, your donor won’t necessarily be your co-parent. It depends on whether you are searching for a sperm donor or for a person who will share the responsibilities of parenting and raising your child with you. The forums at coparents.com can help you decide what you are looking for, and also help you to find the right person for you.

What do I need to know from the free sperm donor?

It’s imperative that you get certain details from your sperm donor before you go ahead with insemination, and some details are more important than others. First of all, of course, you need to know what level of involvement your donor wishes to have with the child, and you should agree on this before you move any further forward. Do not agree to the donor being involved in the child’s life if you want to do this 100% by yourself, because you won’t be happy further down the route.

You should also ask questions about the donor’s family history, including medical history and fertility if they know details of their fertility rates. The donor may have previously donated or had other children, in which case they should know how fertile they are. It is worth noting if they have had other children because your child will ultimately have unknown siblings that they may end up meet by chance sometime in the future.

How do I get pregnant using a sperm donor?

You can get pregnant via either artificial or natural insemination, and this depends entirely on your preferences. We recommend that you choose artificial insemination as this route provides greater protection against sexual transmitted infections. Natural insemination will give the donor automatic parental rights to the child.

How do I know if the donor is fertile?

If the donor has not previously had other children then you could suggest that they undertake a male sperm test to ensure that they have an adequate sperm count.

What are the legal requirements for having a child via sperm donation?

You will need to get a written legal donor or co-parenting agreement in place before you even organize the insemination process. This agreement should set out all of the aspects of how much or how little the donor will be involved in the child’s life after insemination.

Whose name will be on the birth certificate?

Your name will automatically be on the birth certificate, but you should only put your donor’s name on there if you and he both want him to have involvement with the child. If you decide to co-parent with your donor, they should be on the birth certificate and that will effectively mean that they are the child’s legal father.

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  25. I’m looking to add a child to my family. My girlfriend and I both have kids but we’re now wanted one together not sure how this works tho

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  29. Looking For A (Black) Donor For Me And My Partner We Have Everything Handled But , We’re Open To Discuss Rights

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  39. Where can I get free sperm for at home insemination? My wife and I have been trying for a few years with a sperm bank with no luck yet. We are hoping to find a donor with no intentions of being nothing more then a donor. We are looking for someone to help us asap. We are a lesbian couple looking to have a baby.

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  44. I’m a 40 years old African American woman, looking for a African American man that can donate sperm to me. I’m ready to become a mom and my donor can be involved in our child’s life. I live in the Mississippi Delta.

  45. I’d like to find a donor in Toronto if possible to co parent with me but that isn’t a deal breaker I’m positive I could raise a child on my own but would like the option for them to have a father in their life as well

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  49. Hello I’m looking for a African American (Black) Sperm Donor. Me and my girlfriend looking to start a family. I want a donor who will sign there rights over. STD Free located in Florida

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  56. Hey me and my wife are looking for a sperm donor we are a lesbian couple who would prefer if the donor agree to not be in the child life and let us raise the baby on our own

  57. My wife an I are looking for a free sperm donor with no strings attached. Just need the sperm I’m cmv neg an need someone who is also cmv neg.

  58. im interested in a sperm donor no string attached no nothing. i want to have a baby with my partner. I don’t need anything bit sperm

  59. Hi I’m looking for a donor in down south Florida area I’m looking to be a single mother no father requirements need unless you would like to be apart of child life I am 21 and very devoted to being a great mother !

  60. I’m 19 I’ve wanted a child for so long and I’m financially stable enough now I’m located in Denver colorado I need a sperm donor!!!!!

  61. I’m looking for a sperm donor. My preference is a black male. I’m a black 43 year old female in Georgia. I wan to have a baby soon

  62. Me and my fiancé are currently looking for a sperm donor so we can start our family together. Really excited and I would love for someone to help us start this new journey.

  63. interested in becoming a sperm donor 29 years of age African American Strong I workout in have dreads I’m 5’11 167

  64. In ohio looking for a sperm donor. I’ve had kids before though after me and my partner have been trying since April we’ve discovered she’s (mtofm trans) is infertile and she’d like to continue her transformation instead of keep trying.

  65. Hi my name is Maria and me and my girlfriend are wanting to have a baby within the next year and I’m just looking for someone who is willing to donate to me I’m not looking for any co parenting or anything like that but if your interested I would really appreciate it and it would be a blessing to me.

  66. Hello! Me and my girlfriend are a lesbian couple looking for a sperm donor we’ve been looking for a sperm donor for about two and a half years now we would love if someone would help us out with the sperm. Thank you!

  67. Hello! Me and my girlfriend are a lesbian couple looking for a sperm donor we’ve been looking for a sperm donor for about two and a half years now we would love if someone would help us out with the sperm. Thank you!

  68. I’m not a lesbian but I am looking for a sperm donor, preferably somebody who is at least half East Asian (Chinese, Japanese, Korean, ETC) in the PA or NYC area !

  69. Me and my wife are looking for a sperm donor. We want to add to our family and we are excited to start again. We are located in South Carolina.

  70. looking into finding someone that will be willing to help me into finding a donor that wont be super expensive

  71. I’m looking for a sperm donor in Minnesota. Looking for disease free and drug free. I’m in my 30’s I don’t want to have to keep waiting to have my own children.

  72. I’m lesbian and Single , located in Missouri and Im looking for a sperm donor whom is in great health and more . No Co-parenting!!

  73. Me and my wife have been trying to find someone who will donate their sperm so we can finally have a baby. We are located in the state of Delaware.

  74. I need to become pregnant within 3 weeks and I need it to be as secret as possible. I absolutely have to become pregnant within 3 weeks!

  75. I’m in Brownsville Texas and looking for a sperm donor I want to be a single mom Ill be 19 in December but I’m ready to be a mom i do not want the donor involved

  76. My husband and I are looking for a sperm donor in Indiana. We have been trying to become parents for 15 yrs. Several failed adoptions later nothing. If you could help you fulfill are dreams please reach out. Thank You❤️

  77. Interested in finding a sperm donor in Salt Lake City Utah. I do not want a co-parent as I have a fantastic family support system. I also want artificial insemination from home.

  78. I’ve figured out that I am better off alone. I have so much love to give and I believe that having a child will help me. I am a preschool teacher so I keep up with the little kiddos. Hoping someone would be willing to help me out.

  79. I’m looking for a sperm donor. Had someone say they would and now they’re saying no because they don’t wanna be involved. But I’m looking for a donor not looking to charge anyone with child support.

  80. Looking for a Asian sperm donor in and or near Florida. Must be disease/covid free and over 6’0 feet tall.

  81. I have always wanted to become a parent from a very young age and never had a partner to help me to get a baby so when I found out that free sperm was a thing I was filled with joy and happiness and couldn’t wait to become a mother

  82. Oh yeah, and I can’t find my previous comment but I’m in Arizona if interested…I’m cool as hell, I promise:)

  83. I am a Hebrew woman, well aware of what the truth entails, with a great desire to follow the biblical law. I”m a kingdom keeper, spoken word artist and I work in the community services field. I”m also a naturalist. I love the great outdoors. Hiking in the mountains and camping in forestry. Roller-skating is my greatest form of fitness and amusement parks are awesome. I”m an excellent cook and even greater baker. I adore massages, more than anything and I love affection. An intellectual conversationalist, biblical home-maker, great with finances and a lover of jazz, classical and gospel reggae.

    I am seeking a sperm donor. I prefer to parent alone, but I am open to discussing other alternatives, but I would definitely have sole custody.

  84. looking to become a single mother and a sperm donation please contact me if you live in in the Greenville area of North Carolina

  85. I’m looking for a sperm donor that will have no involvement in the child’s life until they are 18 and if they decide to reach out. I am in northern Michigan, any other questions feel free to let me know

  86. Me and my partner are looking for a donor in the Oak Park/Detroit, Michigan. Preferably of good health (no STDs), Hispanic nationality and willing to sign away rights. Thank you.

  87. Need sperm for me and my girlfriend we’ve been wanting kids for awhile but were both lesbian and cant we dont want the sperm donor involved

  88. My wife and I are looking for a sperm donor in or around Paso Robles CA can anyone point me in the right direction plz

  89. I’m looking for a sperm donor I’m healthy young 26 year old in California. I don’t do drugs no health problems. I’m a mixed race black white and Native American mainly more white DNA. I been trying to have a baby for 7 months with no
    Luck. I been cheated on by all the men I dated. I’m ready to become a mom, negative STD results. I’m looking for a donor not to old around 28 in good health no drugs. I have a college degree

  90. My fiancé and I are looking for a sperm donor. Age the oldest 35. We are African Americans and looking for a donor to donate more then one.

  91. Hello i am looking for a donor who can help me. I am 25yo and have wanted a child for a very long time. I want to be a single mom and with no co partnering. I would be truly blessed for anyones help.

  92. Me and my girlfriend are looking for a free sperm donor im a trans guy and we would love to have a kid in our family

  93. I’m looking for a sperm donor for me and my partner. We want someone who is healthy, race doesn’t really matter; STD Free. We DO NOT want the donor in our baby’s life so the correct paperwork will be filed. If you are in the New York or New Jersey area please let us know.

  94. Hello how are you guys hope u are doing well I am looking for a sperm donor for me and my girlfriend we are a lesbian couple . I love kids and I’m so ready to have a lil minie me of me around and definitely would like to use my egg and no we are not trying to co parent we are just looking for a donor please .

  95. Me and My fiancé is in the Indianapolis Indiana area and we are a lesbian couple looking for a sperm donor in or near our area…

  96. Super mom sense birth. Momming makes me really happy. I would be such a kick ass single mom . I’m happy to accept all the challenges. I don’t expect a perfect child or for them to become the perfect adult. I just want to be there mama and love them unconditionally.

  97. Me and my fiancé would like to start a family within the next months maybe even bringing in the new year. IVF is expensive and we have been looking for sperm donors so we can start our family. Our parents are getting older and I’d like for them to have a grandchild and to be able to feel like I belong to someone.

  98. I’m 19 years old and I’m looking for a sperm donor I I’ve been trying to have a child for a little bit and no luck so far I would love to do this on my own so no contact involved please if you are willing to donate to me let me know

  99. I’m looking for a sperm donor to help me I would like my donor to at least have twins in there family because me and my significant other wanna have twins

  100. I’m looking for a sperm donor I don’t care if they want to be involved or not. I’m 21 years old and I know I’m ready

  101. Looking to start a family if anyone can donate sperm co parenting is welcome want to have a baby I’m single

  102. I want to give a girl a baby and take care of her and baby for 10 years then when I die I will leave her every thing Icsn

  103. Looking for a Sperm donor me and my girlfriend are ready to start family. Just need a little help

  104. I’m looking to find a free sperm donor
    I am a single person and im getting to a age where I want a child of my own before I get to old… im not sure what I’m looking for yet
    I will prefer to raise the child on my own but
    If possible some financial assistance if not that’s fine to

  105. I’m looking to find a free sperm donor
    I am a single person and im getting to a age where I want a child of my own before I get to old… im not sure what I’m looking for yet

  106. Looking for a donor here in Georgia and that wants nothing to do with the process just the speed part

  107. My fiancé and I are looking for a sperm donor. I have no idea how this works but we are located in Nebraska.

  108. It’s a long shot jer but it doesn’t seem anyone from wpg, mb has free sperm donor’s. Just a single mom of one looking become a mom again.

  109. My wife and I are trying to have baby looking in to and need to see what all I can find out before I do this fully

  110. Me & my fiancé are looking to have a baby and we are a lesbian couple . Looking for a STD free sperm donor

  111. Looking for someone to donate sperm. He can either be in picture or not. It’ll be his choice. I’m just ready to be mom I been ready for years.

  112. I am located in Mississippi and am currently looking for a sperm donor. I am married and hoping someone out there will be willing to help me start a family, please contact me if interested. bm

  113. I am single and i am very much looking forward to be a single mom – wanna have baby so badly! I am looking for a sperm donor. I am 37 yrs old

  114. I’m looking to be a single mother, I’ve never been engaged or married, I’m looking for a sperm donor. I’m will raise my child on my own.

  115. Me and my husband are looking for a sperm donor we have been trying to have a baby for 3 years we have gotten pregnant twice but it always ends in miscarriage so we are reaching out for help form someone out there.

  116. Looking to have a baby. I want to be a single mom and I’m read to have a baby. I’m 19 years old but ready and exited. I have had my pros and cons for 3 years now. So i know i’m absolutely ready. I don’t want the donor involved

  117. I’m looking for a African American (Black) Sperm Donor. Me and my girlfriend looking to start a family. I want a donor who will sign there rights over. STD Free

    1. I’m willing to help out we can also us a glory hole so we dont need to see each other if you like are you near bay city Michigan

      1. hey i was just wondering where you are located i am looking into starting a family of my own and am currently looking for a man that will start a family with me and help support each and everyone of us