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Why should I choose you?
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After perusing the site a bit there are a lot of folks in need. I believe being engaged and reading forums show that you are more engaged in your pursuit so I would like to open up a forum to hear why I should choose you? Only seems fair right?
Between this and your NI post, I'm pretty sure you're a fetishist.
JonMA- I'm glad that you feel confident enough to share your accusatory opinion. If you'd ever like to talk about my experiences or motivations for continuing on this journey I wouldn't mind doing so but until you fully seek to understand I would appreciate you refraining from making assumptions.
I have successfully participated in long distance donations and am here to work with those that I think are ready for the work it takes to be a parent. Hence why I am asking questions about why they feel they are prepared to be a parent a or why I should choose them. As for what you called my "NI post" it was just as much an AI post as having participated in both I was asking for help explaining the advantages and disadvantages of BOTH. Someone even messaged me about something they called PI or partial insemenation. I am learning and being positive in this space and appreciate you trying to police this space for "fetishist" but please seek to understand first otherwise it just fuels the negativity surrounding this already difficult process and puts you in a bad light.
Wishing you all the best all the same Jon.
I have successfully participated in long distance donations and am here to work with those that I think are ready for the work it takes to be a parent. Hence why I am asking questions about why they feel they are prepared to be a parent a or why I should choose them. As for what you called my "NI post" it was just as much an AI post as having participated in both I was asking for help explaining the advantages and disadvantages of BOTH. Someone even messaged me about something they called PI or partial insemenation. I am learning and being positive in this space and appreciate you trying to police this space for "fetishist" but please seek to understand first otherwise it just fuels the negativity surrounding this already difficult process and puts you in a bad light.
Wishing you all the best all the same Jon.
Before I begin, I am typing on my phone. I apologize if the sentences don't seem in order.
That said, I feel like there are many factors involved in choosing
For example, in the ideal circumstances, there is some form of attraction
Be it physical, talent or mental (e.g. sapiosexuals).
However, being that we are all part of this website...the ideal kinda goes out the window. It depends. If you just want someone to donate then its pretty standard. Clean, healthy, will want minimal to no contact with child or in some cases, available to donate again in the future.
If you seek a coparent then things become as close to looking for a partner as can get. For me, my teenage to early adult years (HS through college) pregnancies among my peers was way too common but to quote jurrasic park "life always finds a way."
In the end, you decide who is the right fit. Asking questions and having conversations in my opinion works. I have donated to couples and single women before in some cases they just want the juice and bye bye.
I apologize for the lengthy reply but I just feel there is more to this than just the old "oh pick me! Pick me!" Write down what you want andbwhat you are willing to compromise (e.g. does the man have to be 6ft or is 5'11" ok)
As for me, feel free to message me and I will be happy to answer any questions you may have the my profile does not answer for you.
Have a great day!
Juan
That said, I feel like there are many factors involved in choosing
For example, in the ideal circumstances, there is some form of attraction
Be it physical, talent or mental (e.g. sapiosexuals).
However, being that we are all part of this website...the ideal kinda goes out the window. It depends. If you just want someone to donate then its pretty standard. Clean, healthy, will want minimal to no contact with child or in some cases, available to donate again in the future.
If you seek a coparent then things become as close to looking for a partner as can get. For me, my teenage to early adult years (HS through college) pregnancies among my peers was way too common but to quote jurrasic park "life always finds a way."
In the end, you decide who is the right fit. Asking questions and having conversations in my opinion works. I have donated to couples and single women before in some cases they just want the juice and bye bye.
I apologize for the lengthy reply but I just feel there is more to this than just the old "oh pick me! Pick me!" Write down what you want andbwhat you are willing to compromise (e.g. does the man have to be 6ft or is 5'11" ok)
As for me, feel free to message me and I will be happy to answer any questions you may have the my profile does not answer for you.
Have a great day!
Juan
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