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Seeking male for co-parenting oppitunity

Looking for a male who would like the oppitunity to co-parent. This role would be suited for those who would like to be a father but there maybe factors making it difficult achieving this. E.g gay, single or single by choice, difficulty conceiving.

The reasons for seeking this arrangement is because I prefer to live a single lifestyle. I would love to experience motherhood and I have a strong belief for my child to have a father or father figure along the way.

Checkout my profile for more about myself. Looking forward to the interests

6 replies

emmyk2 28 April 2025

Dear Violet,

I am self Employ system repair maintenance and networking. I am interested in participating in the care of the child and am open to caring for multiple children with you, if you wish.

I aim to be a dedicated parent and engage in various activities with our child.

Best regards,

tallm4 20 February 2025

Hi Violet20

 

Can I ask what is your preferred method of conception?

You sound kind of perfect. I think we could have a good parenting relationship.

 

Tallman

viole4 18 February 2025

Hi Tallman

My friends describe me as being low-maintenance. I have no desire to form any emotional or romantic commitments with the father, this doesn’t make me happy. I will care for the father’s physical and mental well-being on a platonic level, but I will be firm with my boundaries if I feel I have done all I can.
Our interests and shared happiness will be for the child 🙂 I like the idea of doing occasional activities together like a traditional family would. It could be something as simple like a family dinner or something big like a vacation or road trip. I believe having these shared memories is important for everyone.
Is this something that aligns with what you’re seeking?

 

tallm4 10 February 2025

Hi Violet

I run a Gardening business in Wellington. I would like to be involved in looking after the child, and am happy to have a few children with you if you like.

I would like to be an attentive father, and do activities with my son or daughter. How would you our relationship as co-parents to be like?

Regards

Tallman

viole4 7 February 2025

Hi Tallman

Keen to chat! I will commit to my promise of purchasing a membership in under a month, and then we can chat in more detail 🙂
Can you tell me here how you see yourself in the father role? What does it mean for you to be a father, and what does this future look like for you?
It means a lot to me to see some enthusiasm and ideas from the men. This helps determine if we are a match. Thanks!

tallm4 6 February 2025

Hi there

I would be interested in helping you to become a mother. I’m 35 and live in Wellington.

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