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Looking for lesbian couple or single in Boston area
I’m a gay man in the process of finding a gay relationship (I’m dating someone now). I am looking for lesbian couple or single woman whose values and lifestyle I and my partner can respect who would be interested in coparenting with us.
There are multiple ways that coparenting can arranged. We could all be the parents, or if that seems impractical, we can arrange that one couple are the parents and the others are like special uncles or aunts of the children. My main concerns are that the children should grow up with their birth mother’s love and their birth father’s love in their life, as I can imagine how painful not having that can be (as many children of sperm donors and surrogate moms have reported).
A little bit about my background: I’m a former rabbi, no longer a religious believer, but spiritual in a non-theistic way. I went back to school at age 30 and got a degree in computer science, and worked as a software engineer at a big tech company until recently. I’m now working on an entrepreneurial pursuit. The type of person I’m looking for would share similar values of living life intentionally, cultivating awareness, relating with warmth, pursuing kindness, and eating healthily. Someone who values relationships. Someone with a child-centered, progressive (which is not the same as permissive) attitude toward parenting.
I haven’t done a long write up about my ideas about parenting. I consider it an awesome responsibility and opportunity to nurture, protect and support a child’s development with love and attention to both their physical and emotional needs. (But if you are curious to learn more about me, I share much about myself in my dating profile, here, though it’s not addressed to a coparent.
Please let me know if you know someone who might be a good fit.
Thanks
~ Jon
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Hello Jono, I currently live in the NYC area. I’m interested in co parenting. Maybe we could talk more.
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Hi jjalyn,
It’s not out of the question, though we do live in different cities.
I checked out your profile, but just the stats have been filled out. Maybe you could fill it out some more? I have so many questions about who you are, and about why you want to become a parent. Let’s see if we’re looking for the same type of thing.
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