Looking for a nurturing and cool daddy for Co-parenting

I am not sure how this works. My ideal situation In co-parenting will be you act like the favorite uncle.
Not sure if that is making sense. Lol! Looking for an active daddy to be there for the child. I strongly believe that a child benefits greatly when raised by two loving and nurturing parents. This is an ideal situation for a career driven man that has little time for home life, but would still like a child. I love children and would like to be a stay-at-home Mom.
I am open to different cities in America, because I work from home. Right now I live in Houston.