Single demi-sexual female looking for a donor.

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    by Sam42      .      25 Feb 2019

    Hi, as stated in the subject, I am a single, 31 year old female in need of a donor. I'm demi-sexual, meaning that I'm not attracted to either men or women based on physical appearance. I don't date, never have and I have no desire to. I've been looking for a donor for over a year but it's a hard subject to broach in the area that I live. The term demi-sexual seems to have some stigma attached to it as well. Most don't seem to understand the concept of not wanting a partner, especially if you want a child. The only recommendation that I've gotten from friends and family is to find a random partner for a one night stand but I just can't bring myself to do it. I could use some actual advise, and not someone's flippant attempt to brush me off because they think I'm full of it. Really, at this point, any help would be appreciated. As a side not, I have been to my doctor. I've been told that I should have no trouble trying to conceive. Thanks in advance!

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    Hi, as stated in the subject, I am a single, 31 year old female in need of a donor. I'm demi-sexual, meaning that I'm not attracted to either men or women based on physical appearance. I don't date, never have and I have no desire to. I've been looking for a donor for over a year but it's a hard subject to broach in the area that I live. The term demi-sexual seems to have some stigma attached to it as well. Most don't seem to understand the concept of not wanting a partner, especially if you want a child. The only recommendation that I've gotten from friends and family is to find a random partner for a one night stand but I just can't bring myself to do it. I could use some actual advise, and not someone's flippant attempt to brush me off because they think I'm full of it. Really, at this point, any help would be appreciated. As a side not, I have been to my doctor. I've been told that I should have no trouble trying to conceive. Thanks in advance!

    Hello Sam42
    I saw your post and had some question. Generally where are you. I am not asking exact location just location in general. East coast. West coast. Maybe a state.
    And are you OK with a Co-Parenting and not just a diner
    I know I am looking for a Co-Parent arrangement. I am OK with artifical, IVF. At home insemination. But I would want to be part of child’s life from birth. This may be helpful in narrowing down the field. Weed out the diners who only are looking for natural insemination and no contact after that ( that is a one night stand and a hook up). I wish you well on your search and wish you a happy and healthy child

    Hi Timslim. I live in southern Illinois. I haven't given much thought to co-parenting, but it could be an option. If you'd like to chat more, please message me.

    Connect with me!

    I can help.. no joke.. please send me contact info

    Hi I love to help you I live in Colorado


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