my/our names are Tash and Jill and i have been engaged to my beautiful fiance Jill for 5 (nearly 6 years now.)
we were looking at adoption but the process is so long (not that we wont try it in the future) and IVF will have 3 years (if we are approved and we would like to know who the father is (even if he wants to remain absent from their lives.)
we are a very easy going couple and financially stable to raise a child… that is so desperately wanted!!
we live south of the river (perth) and I work as a nurse what my fiance is a physio (but studying to be a Pharmacy/ Chemistry.)
yes we are a same sex couple… but we have been together since 2011, have built our own house together and are ready for our first child.
we have tried before with a friend 2 years ago but we were unfortunately unsuccessful.
Jill is light skinned, blonde hair and blue eyes while i am olive skin, dark hair and deep brown eyes. ideally we would like to find a close match to myself but it doesnt matter, I am just looking for a good block with a god personality
Now our little rules:
ARTIFICIAL INSEMINATION ONLY
NO INTERCOURSE OR SEX
DONATION ONLY FOR AI
IT WOULD BE WONDERFUL IF YOU WOULD CONSIDER DONATING AGAIN IN THE FUTURE SO OUR TWO CHILDREN CAN HAVE THE SAME FATHER,
We are happy to get a contract drawn up (like with did with our friend for piece of mind) if you are worried about money etc but we can give you our word the child will be ours and we will support him/ her 100% – we are able and capable too- we built our house 18 months with the intention of raising and bring up our children up in it, there are fantastic schools close by and all amenities.
I come from a big extended family who are very supportive of Jill and I and wish they could do something to help us in finding a sperm donor. Jill is an only child but has a supportive mum and we have a great bunch of friends,
we could like to find someone who is also willing to give us a sibling when the time comes as we want our children to have each other as then they have something in common and i believe it will make it easier on our (hopefully soon to be!) kids.
please help me fulfil my dream, i was born to be a mum and im ready to get started after a clean bill from the doctor.
p.s. we are both turning 30 – me on FRIDAY! -so my biological clock is ticking hahaha
But its not that, we have wanted this for so long and believe we will make fantastic parents and are flexible if you DID want to see the child, we would just need a contract drawn to say we dont want any money or compensation from you and in return you cannot apply for custody of our child once he/ she is born… hope that doesnt sound harsh but u know what i mean yeah?
I hear so many stories about woman on this website so im a little apprehensive being so open and honest, but thats just me and i ca just hope in my heart u are a genuine person!
Please help us!
Tash and Jill