Choosing a sperm donor for your prospective child can be a difficult decision to make, and your requirements for your sperm donor will surely differ depending on the other people in your life.
One of the best ways to think of the most important qualities for your sperm donor is to think about your own relations and friends. What are the most interesting and important things about those people in your eyes? Is it their height, hair colour, religion or complexion, or is it what they do for a living, what their hobbies are, their values or their education?
Chances are that your child, once he or she is born, will be far more interested to know whether their natural father was an athlete or a scientist than to know that he was chosen because of his tall dark and handsome looks that didn’t pass on to your offspring. Using an anonymous sperm donor will mean that your child will never know or see a picture the man that gave them the chance that they needed to be born, and so his looks and resemblance to them won’t be as important as his past.
Certainly, your donor’s medical history is one of the most important factors to consider when you are considering an anonymous sperm donor, and if you want to keep the procedure as blind as possible, then at least consider the donor’s family health history. Most sperm banks in the west are now known for the quality of their sperm testing, particularly for hereditary and acquired diseases, giving you as much knowledge as possible about any possible conditions that your child could have. Unfortunately, however, some of these could slip through the cracks and if your child was to develop a genetic disease further down the line then you won’t be able to contact an anonymous donor to obtain any further medical information.
Therefore, if you want as little knowledge as possible about your child’s father, at least make sure you know all you can about their health; otherwise you could regret it in years to come.
106 thoughts on “How well do you want to know your sperm donor?”
04/20/2015 at
Hi I want to find a free sperm donner if u could give me detail in how to go about this thank
11/17/2015 at
white male 4ft. 10in. 60 years old blown hair haz eyes & live in the state of penn.
05/29/2017 at
Hello are you still looking to conceive?
Nick
08/17/2018 at
hi my name is Melissa i am 24 virgin and i’m looking to have a baby.
04/23/2015 at
Hello im 27 years old and want to get pregnant already. I would love it if someone could help. I live in Indiana. If anyone could help please send me an email. Thank you
05/04/2015 at
I live close in Illinois, I have no problems and have helped several women before, 34, in good shape, have done both artificial and natural, thanks
01/08/2017 at
Zach, I’m looking for a sperm donor in Illinois I’m 47 yrs old and been wanting a baby of my own for several yrs but never in a relationship to feel good about financially supporting a baby. Now I’m married to a wonderful woman who has two teenage kids but still feel like I’m missing my own. I’m looking for someone that could help me in this long journey looking for AI not NI going through a sperm bank could be EXTREMEMLY costly because this probably wont be an easy pregnancy. If you could help please contact me asap Thank you for your time. Deb
05/30/2018 at
Hi zack! Names Lynzee, already a mom of a 4 year old. Want another baby but just can’t seem to find someone good enough to procreate with. If you’d like to help id appreciate it!
06/11/2015 at
Hi. Im Cristina a lesbian woman thinking about to have a child with my partner. I live in Boston MA if anybody can help me plz email me. Thx !
07/10/2015 at
Me & my fiance, same sex couple. Looking for AI only,std & HIV free. White or Hispanic male. We are from Fayetteville NC
07/28/2015 at
Hi I want to find a free sperm donner if u could give me detail in how to go about this thank
07/28/2015 at
Lesbian couple looking for an african american male sperm donor to help us create our family. Please email at ***@yahoo.com. Located in Riverside,CA.
07/28/2015 at
Single woman right here, looking for a Jewish male sperm donor. One with the typical “middle eastern” look to him but ethnically Jewish with all the right features that I’m looking for. If someone is wiling to help me find the source, or point me in the right direction, that will be great.
10/29/2015 at
Looking for free sperm to be shipped to me as my boyfriend is not fertile would like a Caucasian please help if you can thank you
11/02/2015 at
I wanna surprise my girlfriend an get pregnant I want a baby an she wants a baby its about that time our life to have a little boy or a little girl please no black men
11/17/2015 at
IWHITE MALE 4FT. 10IN. 60 YEARS OLD BLOWN HAIR HAZ. EYES WHERE DO YOU LIVE AT i LIVE IN THE STATE OF PENN. & IN
11/23/2015 at
I am in Colorado and would like to get pregnant. Looking for caucasian male who can help.
01/07/2016 at
Hi I need a donor for artificial insamination. You need to be mid to late 20’s, good education back ground, blonde hair and blue eyes and semi- tall please. If there is a donor out there that meets this description please get a hold of me right away Thankyou.
Location: Qld, Australia.
02/26/2016 at
I’m 30 years old been threw America reproductive center had surgery and my partner can’t have babys. I would like to do the sperms procedures at home please. I’ve already been to a gynecologist. Please help me have a free spream donor willing to bless me with a baby with vials I can get threw the mail. Easy process. I dearly appreciate it anyone to help. Thank you God bless you! My Gmail is ***@gmail.com if your interested please think it threw please thank you!
03/09/2016 at
Hi I’m looking for someone who’s in their 20’s or 30’s to help me naturally conceive a baby. I’m from Canada
07/05/2017 at
Hey my name is Jeff and I am in Nebraska. I had a motorcycle accident 4 years ago and am now paralyzed from the chest down. I am 29 and don’t have any kids and would like to have some out there.
04/23/2016 at
Hi I’m 37yrs old . I Have good job leaving NYC. I want a baby I need a sperm donor. Anyone wish to help please send me email
07/07/2016 at
Hi im 20years old me and my girlfriend are looking for a free sperm donor we live in the chicago area
09/18/2016 at
Hi looking for a sperm donor. wanting too start our own family sooner then ever. Someone around Australia would be good Thanks
09/29/2016 at
Hello I am from new Jersey and I am looking for a sperm donor…willing to conceive naturally or artificially. Looking for someone who is hispanic or multicultural. I am a blonde with blue eyes, 28, 5’4 and 160 lbs. I want a baby!
11/13/2016 at
Hi my nam is Phillip
I am 46
I am like to help
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10/08/2016 at
Hello I am from Lawrenceville,GA and I am looking for a sperm donor…willing to conceive naturally. Looking for someone who is hispanic, white, asian, indian, any race or multicultural. I am a Black with brown eyes 24, 5’4 210 lbs. I want a baby! And i am very much ready for what i want.
10/25/2016 at
Hi I’m Melissa, I’m 21, Hispanic, I live in Houston tx, and need a sperm donor, white with blue or green eyes! Yes I’m willing to meet! Email me please!
12/04/2016 at
Hi I want to. Donate sperm anyone interested contact me on my WhatsApp +***
01/29/2017 at
I am in Mississippi and looking for free sperm to be shipped to me. Caucasian help if you can.Thanks.
02/06/2017 at
I am looking for a sperm donor. I am 38, blond hair green eyes and slim. I am in NYC and would be able to take care of the child myself if you don’t want to be involved.
03/07/2017 at
I am in Canada and would like to get pregnant. Looking for caucasian male who can help. I am Japanese.
03/17/2017 at
I am a separated female and I am wanting a baby I am healthy
04/02/2017 at
Hi my name Charlene I’m trying to get pregnant I’m gay and I need free sprem .I live in Louisiana
04/16/2017 at
Hi I’m Taya I am 20 and my fiancé and I want to have a baby. I’m a mixed female with African American and Native American roots. Please contact me if you can help. I’m open to all ethnicities but must be 5’10” or more.
04/17/2017 at
I live in Brick, nj. My name is Dave. I am 6 foot 1 with brown,blonde hair. I am average build went to kean university where I studied English. Got 3.0 and then published my children’s book on Amazon kindle. It’s called hopefully someone special. Currently just started business helping take care of seniors. Also soon working at Allaire state park. I’m looking do something nice for someone. Will be a free donor. You don’t have to pay me unless you want to give me 50 bucks. But that is not needed. I don’t care how you want to do it I will try to help do something nice for a change. I am completely healthy and in good shape. Hope to hear from you soon.
04/23/2017 at
Hi Dave,
I’m hoping you can help me. I am looking for a donor. I will pay for the shipping & delivery expenses. I am a single Latina wanting to start my own family. I am financially stable to raise my child and I have plenty of family support.
05/30/2018 at
Hi dave!!! Im sure you’ve helped your fair share of woman by now. I saw your comment about wanting to help women who want children. I live in kcmo and am a white healthy woman with a 4 year old child already. He wants a sibling and I’m just to busy for a relationship. But taking care of the baby would be a different story. Please email back!
05/06/2017 at
Hello, will you please email me at ***@gmail.com, i am loooking for a donor. please email for more info.
05/12/2017 at
would like sperm donation…i wil pay all your expenses…thru the mail….for my wife…who wants to have a baby…
02/08/2018 at
This is by far the weirdest thingever but now its bedoen my dream. I have two awesome kids? Smart, athletic, well mannered , driven kids. I had them when I was 21,23, but, my husband had already had three girls fro prior relationship that I ended up adopting. At the time the best thing to do was get a vacetamey. Now, at this stage of our lives we are having big time regret z. Unfortunately, my husbands vacetamey can. It be reversed. So, we want to have another awesome human being added to our family. May be untraditional to some but ideal to us. Would like it to be 100% anonomus from the donor. If and when the chikd dedidee different the option Will always be theirs. We Will pay for any Neede for speciman. Think you so much!!!!! Truly yours, Patricia
06/08/2018 at
Hi Dave. I live in NJ. Single white woman in my 30’s. Looking for a donor for NI. I have a three year old from a prior marriage and am looking to have another child. Hope you can help!
04/23/2017 at
Looking for a cowboy. Single Latina, educated woman able to provide stable loving home to a new child. looking for a healthy, tall, Caucasian donor with colored eyes. It does not matter if you are in the states or abroad. I will pay for shipping and delivery expenses. This will be for artificial insemination. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to fulfill this dream. -Sandra
06/21/2017 at
My girlfriend and I are lesbians looking for sperm , trying to match my girlfriend so, we need a white colored eye male , tall ,athletic or skinny , smart, humor , active , into sports or even musical , we are healthy so prefer the guy to be as well, family history is a must, family oriented , we are trying to have a baby as soon as possible, please email if you are interested in helping us conceive our first child .
07/11/2017 at
Hi I’m 26 years old looking for a Caucasian man to naturally inseminate me he must have good health and no criminal record he must be between 20 and 35 if possible please help me I’m from South Africa. Looking for help
07/14/2017 at
I am a 39 year old woman looking to have a baby on my own. I just have not found the right man and my time is running out. They say it takes a village to raise a baby. I have been in every ones village and consider myself a village elder. I want nothing more than to raise a baby of my own. Please consider helping to make my dreams come true. I live in the Metro Detroit area.
08/18/2017 at
Looking for men, who donates there sperm for free and free mail delivery,. Please contact me, if any men are interested in helping a lesbian couple to have children
08/20/2017 at
hi i am Ashley, im 27 years old. i am a lesbian, ive been wanting a child for a while now but cant find anyone who would help me. if someone can help me i would be very thankful!!
09/25/2017 at
Lesbian couple looking for sperm donor u can be native American we been trying to have a baby for five years now I just turned 31 want more info email me at ***@gmail.com
10/03/2017 at
Lesbian couple looking to have a baby. If one is interested please email me at ***@gmail.com
10/22/2017 at
Lesbian couple wanting to expand our family Wife and i of ten years are looking for sperm donation and serious candiadtes please email us
10/22/2017 at
We are a lesbian couple looking to expand our family looking for a sperm donation seriouse inquiries please email us
10/23/2017 at
Hey I’m lookin for a donor. You gotta be white with colored eyes and over 5,10.
Please email me
10/30/2017 at
I’m 23 and married both my wife and I are looking to conceive artificial insemination, willing to travel to do so. Please help …
11/27/2017 at
My husband and I are looking for a sperm donor to conceive our 2nd child.. we had great experience with our 1st donor for our beautiful baby boy that is 6 months now..ty
12/02/2017 at
Hello, looking to be a sperm donor to someone in need. I’m 40 very much in shape,blonde,green eyes,excellent health,natural straight teeth and educated. I’m in central iowa.
12/09/2017 at
Blonde. Haired. Blue eyed. Guy would. Like help your. User. In the new years. With. A baby on the way. Appleton. Wisconsin
01/18/2018 at
Im looking for a free sperm donor. Natural or by invitro. My husband and i cannot get me pregnant due to his back surgeries. Hes disabled and back is completelg fused. Please email, text or call ***
01/19/2018 at
Looking for a sperm donor in Jacksonville or Nashville. Please email me ***@gmail.com
Open to any race.
01/25/2018 at
Looking for a sperm donor in nc area. Email text call
03/19/2018 at
Hi there, I am in Northern California. I healthy and educated. Let me know if you are still interested. I’m 5’10”, brown eyes, black hair, hispanic.
02/21/2018 at
Hi looking for a free sperm donor in CA if someone could help please
03/19/2018 at
Hi there, I am in Northern California. I healthy and educated. Let me know if you are still interested. I’m 5’10”, brown eyes, black hair, hispanic.
02/21/2018 at
looking for a free sperm donor in CA area
03/19/2018 at
Hi there, I am in Northern California. I healthy and educated. Let me know if you are still interested. I’m 5’10”, brown eyes, black hair, hispanic.
03/09/2018 at
Hi my name is tanisha I am looking for a free sperm donor in south hill virgina and if so can u please help me thank u and I am a lesbian woman
04/06/2018 at
Hi there,
Im a straight 25 year old female, wanting to start a family, looking for a free sperm donor in queensland Australia.
Thanks
04/19/2018 at
I am a black female seeking a sperm donor preferably white. I live in Illinois near the St. Louis area. Anyone out there? Hope to hear from you soon…
05/04/2018 at
I’m trying to help my daughter find a free sperm. She’s 29, healthy, educated and employed. He should be healthy, educated, drug/disease free. Able to provide family medical history with nothing major, any age and you’re also black.send photo and brief bio.
05/22/2018 at
im indian i intrested spearm donation
pls contect me im need help u
i give spearm contact me
06/05/2018 at
M a South African lady looking for a sperm donor. Be long black or wite n smart with good shape n six pack
07/15/2018 at
Hi I’m trying to find a free sperm donor. I’m a Puerto Rican, lesbian woman, 35 years old and ready to start a family. I’m educated, healthy, and employed. I’m looking for someone tall, a graduate preferably, and healthy. Should be able to provide family medical history.
07/28/2018 at
Hi im traying to find a free sperm cell im philipines im 29 years old
08/17/2018 at
Hello I’m 45 years old trying to concieve a baby, unable too. Have an egg donor need a sperm donor to have a baby. I li e in sacramento ca. Please if anyone is interested please reach out to me. Thank you
09/28/2018 at
Aussie professional working mum looking for a chance to have a third and final child. Looking for donor or co parent opportunity if over 35 years old (for co parent). Easiest path is within Australia however I have always dreamed of relocating to the US -let me know how many dreams you can make comes true
12/01/2018 at
Hi we’re a married couple in our 40” looking for someone to help us with a sprem Donor for wife ?husband had a Vasectomy back in 2000 and can’t have a kids with his wife So if there’s anyone available to help us out with some sperm so wife could have a baby please let us know this Person we’re would like to look for would have to be Caucasian or Mexican please help us we can’t really afford a sperm bank thanks in advance …
01/04/2019 at
Looking for a sperm doner for my girlfriend live close to Chicago I’m willing to pay for all expenses she 21 years old 5’4 brown skin
01/13/2019 at
my name is brahmam i am indian
03/01/2019 at
Hello,
I am looking for a sperm donor in CA. Plese contact me if you are willing to help.
Thank you.
03/17/2019 at
Hi I’m trying to find a free sperm donor pls can someone help me with this pls I’m 40yrs old and I would love to have a child but it cost so much so that can uses help me find a donor that will give their sperm with no attachments pls
07/24/2020 at
If you still needed help, please write me, I live in Denmark.
03/24/2019 at
I’m looking for a sperm donor.
Anyone want to be that guy?
Drop me a message…
04/04/2019 at
I have been wanting a child. Havent found the right partner. Curious about Dave from central Iowa, are you still interested in doing this?
“Hello, looking to be a sperm donor to someone in need. I’m 40 very much in shape,blonde,green eyes,excellent health,natural straight teeth and educated. I’m in central iowa.”
04/27/2019 at
My name is April I am 25 I live in Missouri and I would like to keep my options open to find a sperm donor I would prefer a black male considering insemination both artificially and or naturally
10/29/2019 at
I’m an older white guy. Free sperm available to women in the Dallas/Ft.Worth area. I will come to you. Please email me.
11/04/2019 at
Hi,
My Name is jane from Seattle Washington am Looking sperm donors or co parenting am 40yrs and ready to have baby. Probably I would like white man .God bless u as u come and be a blessing to me.
11/19/2019 at
Female early 20s looking for a Sperm donor . Located in Vermont. Willing to co part but not required. Looking for Caucasian male preferably blue eyes (not required) .
12/01/2019 at
Hi,
My Name is Val from Port Huron am Looking sperm donors. am 46yrs and ready to have baby. Probably I would like a red head white man that is free of STDs and hiv. God bless u as u come and be a blessing to me and my husband .
12/10/2019 at
Im fully lesbian married. Im looking for free sperm donor or support us deaf lesbian. I would like to see Mexican/china/black with color eyes. Im in Houston.
03/05/2020 at
I’m fully lesbian single and I’m looking for free sperm donor so I can have a baby of my own. I would like to see Mexican/ China / white with color eyes in Michigan
03/09/2020 at
Hi my name is bee I am looking for spern donor. I looking for chinese,korean,japan please help my husband and I want to start our family ASAP . We are very appreciated. Thank god bless us and the helper.
04/28/2020 at
Looking for a healthy guy no STDs . Free sperm donor whose caucasian if interested please message me back thanks
05/03/2020 at
I want to know more about free sperm donations. My husband and I want to have a baby but unfortunately he’s unable to do so. 🙁
07/24/2020 at
I live in Copenhagen, ready to help you, write me e mail.
05/05/2020 at
Hi,I’m a married wife me and my husband have a 9 year old but we’ve been trying to get pregnant for over 5 yrs now, both of us we are African, we really need another child I’m 35 yrs old.If somebody can help us I’ll really appreciate . Preferably and African person.
05/17/2020 at
looking for a sperm donor for my partner and i.
05/27/2020 at
Hi me and my wife is looking for a sperm donor. A healthy and free from std or hiv. We leave here in Toronto, Ontario. Pls message me. Thanks
07/24/2020 at
I am strong married men living in Copenhagen, never smoke, never use alcohol, if interested write me e mail.
06/02/2020 at
Hi we have 3 sons with autism
And my partner had vastomy done. Due to this reason
We are looking for a Australian sperm donor as my husband is Australian. We want the donor to be Anonymous and no involvement of the child but we like information about the donor like a pic any health in his family overall our age are 34/35 of age
06/05/2020 at
Looking for a sperm donor in the Charleston area. Me and my gf want a baby! I am 36 she’s 32
07/24/2020 at
Hallo, I live in Copenhagen, if you are interested, please write me a message.
07/03/2020 at
Hi my name is meaghan I’m using my sister’s email address . I am looking for a sperm donor online? I want to have a baby. My daughter died tragically and Its been over a year and now I’ve decided I want to have a child. I am not in a relationship I’m coming out of a very abusive relationship and can’t date anybody right now. Please if there s a young woman that can empathize with me who possibly has a Male friend who is willing o help me, I’d be very grateful.
08/17/2020 at
I am looking for a donor near Toronto Canada. Is there anyone close to me.
08/28/2020 at
Hi I want a free sperm donor in new york area….in bronx
09/01/2020 at
Aloha I’m here in Honolulu, I’m looking for a free sperm donor. I’m looking to extend my family. Me and my husband had come to agreement. We had been blessed with 7 kids plus 2 more and are very grateful. We could extend our family but my husband can no longer have any more. We are more excited to even find one donor. Who is healthy and from the Islands. Thank you!! And have a blessed Day!
12/31/2020 at
Hi pls I’m 30yrs and I want to get pregnant but my husband is having fertility issues, please I and my husband is looking for a donor in Nigeria I will be glad if someone can help bcos is 9yrs now of our marriage